"I found in myself a constant love for my mother, and jealousy of my father. I now consider this to be a universal event in childhood..."
-Freud
Freud based his theory on psychosexual development on the Greek tragedy of Oedipus. Oedipus' father, the king of Thebes, Laius, is told by a psychic that one day his son will kill him. Fearful that the prophecy will come true, he leaves his baby son outside to die. A herdsman finds Oedipus and takes him away from Thebes. As Oedipus gets older, he is fearful that the prophecy that he will kill his father and marry his mother will come true. So, not knowing he was adopted, he leaves home to avoid this fate. Laius, at the same time, leaves to search for an answer to the Sphinx's riddle. The two men cross paths on their travels and fight escalates in which Oedipus kills Laius. Oedipus goes on to marry the widowed Jocasta, and becomes king. When he finds that Jocasta is his mother, he blinds himself and Jocasta hangs herself. After Oedipus is no longer king, his two sons kill each other.
Freud uses this story to explain childhood development into adult sexual maturity. He named his theory the Oedipus Complex. This theory states that all children have a desire for the parent of the same sex, and a want to eliminate the parent of the opposite sex. The Oedipus Complex in females, however, eventually shifts to desire for their father because they are envious of their gender. He says that women are envious of men, because they feel inferior to them. The name he gave the female Oedipus Complex is the Electra Complex.
So the question is; is Freud correct? No, he isn't. The idea that children long for their parents is simply disturbing. Freud was wrong. He believes that he too had the unconscious desire to kill his father, which he found during his intense self analysis shortly before his death. Marxist-oriented followers believe that the desire is more about power than sexuality. I disagree with all theories about childhood desires for parental figures. Freud was completely sexist thinking that women are envious of men, because they are not men themselves. This idea has brought on many justified criticisms from feminists. This is one the most outrageous of all of Freud's theories.
I also agree with you. I don't long to kill either of my parents, and I also don't ever want to marry them. I find this disturbing, and kind of funny. Freud was obviously an indivitual with many problems.
ReplyDeleteThis theory is crazy, and it is definitely far from being true.
ReplyDeleteI agree I haven't ever had any of those desires and if they do appear it is a rare mental disorder in the body.
ReplyDeleteDoes Freud have any other, less disturbing theories? I do think it is incredibly interesting when an idea, however bizzare, spans centuries and gets support from philisophical people. I applaud you for presenting this interesting topic.
ReplyDeleteThis therory is absoultley crazy. Freud must have many problems.
ReplyDeleteFreud is a crazy man. This theory is just disturbing to think that kids desire their parents. Clearly, it is not true.
ReplyDeleteI didn't know Freud was crazy. Interesting blog.
ReplyDeleteEww this theory is insane! Freud most defiantly had some problems. Good article!
ReplyDeleteThat is a very untrue theory on Freud's part. Most people don't want to kill their parents or marry them.
ReplyDeleteFreud must have many problems.
ReplyDeleteI can't imagine how anyone could have such disturbing theories.
ReplyDeleteHe is a crazy, crazy man!!!!! And your last paragraph is super :D
ReplyDeleteyeah i agree that is pretty ridiculous, but who knows.
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